tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24899200812182376312024-03-06T14:26:22.977+08:00Sambal Udang Petaii am somebody. you are somebody else. enough. dotSambal Udang Petaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06457364370151867719noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489920081218237631.post-17948345881866017852013-02-23T20:47:00.002+08:002013-02-23T20:47:34.800+08:00Travel Medicine<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I think it's a good thing to share some tips that I gain. I travel a lot. Like a lot! And all this tips I learnt from my own experiences :) Hope it brings at least a benefit for you guys as well</div>
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My first tips will be related to the health. Yes, I'm very concern when it comes to health especially when I travel. I always want to make sure that I travel in a good condition. So here some of the things that always in my so called "Healthy Bag".</div>
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<b><span style="color: yellow;">1. Panadol Actifast</span></b></div>
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It's a must!! Very helpful bila demam, migraine and pening2..</div>
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<b><span style="color: yellow;">2. Pil Chi Kit Teck Aun</span></b></div>
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<span style="text-align: left;">Pil ni sekarang da glamour sangat..Sangat mudah untuk didapati defat mana2 kedai..Usually I will bring like a box!! Very helpful untuk membantu perut yang tai than masakan or makanan yang pelik-pelik hat liar sans tu.. Sesetengah orang maybe tai than dengan bay and quantity oil ni.. But rather than going to toilet a lot of time, I rather telan je pil ni.</span></div>
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For all the girls of course!! I know it may not working for some of the girls..tapi bila dah sakit and dah desperate kat luar sana, this pill you will want the most!</div>
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You know already what is it for but for me, it's more on mencegah tanda2 awal demam :)</div>
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<b><span style="color: yellow;">5. Ubat Gastrik</span></b></div>
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I have gastric. Ubat ni dapat daripada klinik tempatan. All you have to do just hisap je sampai habis before makan. It will somehow neutralize your stomach.</div>
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This is also helpful bila demam. Pakai je waktu malam, then the fever bole lagi cep at kebab.</div>
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<b><span style="color: yellow;">7. Panaflex</span></b></div>
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This one is for my back actually. Coz my work mostly related to physically. So sometimes I do have problem with my back.</div>
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<b><span style="color: yellow;">8. ENO</span></b></div>
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ENO can help you release some gases inside your stomach. I like this thing especially the ginger one eventhough the taste is not that good. </div>
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I always bring masks. Mask ni untuk mengekalkan kelembapan di muka. Pakai je sambil surfing internet ke. Senang kan?</div>
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<b><span style="color: yellow;">10. Plasters </span></b><br />
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In case anything happen, you have your own plasters. Better cari yang water resistent.</div>
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I have some problem with my digesting system :( So I need this to neutralize my kidney</div>
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<span style="color: yellow;"><b> 12. Hydroxycut</b></span><br />
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This thing give extra energy to you. You will be like a hamster the whole day. Can get it from GNC :) Just bancuh and minum. Rasa macam juice je</div>
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<b><span style="color: yellow;">13. Fusidic Acid</span></b></div>
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Ini untuk melegakan bisul :P</div>
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I like the one from pharmacy. Sangat2 berkesan!</div>
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Finally, put it all together in one small bag. And you can bring it everywhere at anytime.</div>
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I hope the tips will help you keep healthy during your travel!!! :) :)</div>
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Adios,</div>
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-Puan Sawang-</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09933721883179117938noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489920081218237631.post-28600010430155333342013-02-05T09:15:00.001+08:002013-02-05T09:16:10.503+08:00Human Body Facts<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;"><b><i><span style="color: #999999; font-size: large;">The human body is a machine that is full of wonder. This collection of human body facts will leave you wondering why in the heck we were designed the way we were.</span></i></b></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><b><i><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" /></i></b></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><span style="line-height: 18px;"><br /></span></span><br />
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">50,000 of the cells in your body will die and be replaced with new cells, all while you have been reading this sentence! pretty cool</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your body requires 1000-1500 calories per day just to simply survive (breathing, sleeping, eating).</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The brain itself cannot feel pain. While the brain might be the pain center when you cut your finger or burn yourself, the brain itself does not have pain receptors and cannot feel pain.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The average human body contains enough: Sulphur to kill all fleas on an average dog, Carbon to make 900 pencils, Potassium to fire a toy cannon, Fat to make 7 bars of soap, Phosphorus to make 2,200 match heads, and enough Water to fill a ten gallon tank</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your left lung is smaller than your right lung to make room for your heart.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The average human produces a quart of saliva a day or 10,000 gallons in a lifetime.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Every day an adult body produces 300 billion new cells.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">In one hour, your heart works hard enough to produce the equivalent energy to raise almost 1 ton of weight 1 yard off the ground.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Scientists say the higher your I.Q. the more you dream.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The largest cell in the human body is the female egg and the smallest it the male sperm.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">You use 200 muscles to take one step.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">You use an average of 43 muscles for a frown.<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" /> You use an average of 17 muscles for a smile.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The average human's heart will beat 3000 million times in their lifetime.<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" />The average human will pump 48 million gallons of blood in their lifetime.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">In 1 square inch of skin there lies 4 yards of nerve fibers, 1300 nerve cells, 100 sweat glands, 3 million cells, and 3 yards of blood vessels.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">There are 45 miles of nerves in the skin of a human being.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Muscle cells live as long as you do while skin cells live less than 24 hours.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">A fetus acquires fingerprints at the age of three months.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">A full bladder is roughly the size of a soft ball.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">You burn 26 calories in a one minute kiss.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your brain operates on the same amount of power that would light a 10-watt light bulb.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">There are 5 million hair follicles on an average adult.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The acid in your stomach is strong enough to dissolve razorblades.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The human brain cell can hold 5 times as much information as the Encyclopedia Brittanica.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Approximately 75% of human poop is made of water.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your eyes are always the same size from birth but your nose and ears never stop growing.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">It takes the food seven seconds to get from your mouth to your stomach.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The average human dream lasts 2-3 seconds.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your brain is more active during the night than the day.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">One human hair can support 3kg.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Human thighbones are stronger than concrete.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The tooth is the only part of the human body that can't repair itself.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">An average human loses about 200 head hairs per day.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The white part of your fingernail is called the Lunula.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">There is enough iron in a human being to make one small nail.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Fingernails grow nearly 4 times faster than toenails.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">A shank is the part of the sole between the heel and the ball of the foot.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The talus is the second largest bone in the foot.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The attachment of human muscles to skin is what causes dimples.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The world`s first test-tube twins were born in June 1981.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">A 13 year old child found a tooth growing out of his foot in 1977.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Neurons continue to grow throughout human life.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your thumb is approximately the same size as your nose.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">A woman's heart beats faster than a man's.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">In a year, a person`s heart beats 40,000,000 times.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Dogs and Humans are the only animals with prostates.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">It only takes 7lbs of of pressure to rip off your ears.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">There are nine muscles in your ear.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your nose can remember 50,000 different scents.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The navel divides the body of a newborn baby into two equal parts.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">If the average male never shaved, his beard would be 13 feet long when he died.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Experts say the human body has 60,000 miles of blood vessels. Verified Human Anatomy and Physiology", Third Edition, by Elaine N. Marieb. copyright date is 1995. p. 643 Thxs, monkee191</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">If they were laid end to end, the blood vessels in your body would wrap around the equator 2 1/2 times.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The tongue is the only muscle attached at one end.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Fetuses can hiccup.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Nerve impulses to and from the brain travel as fast as 170 miles per hour.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your brain uses 40% of the oxygen that enters your bloodstream.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Scientists have counted over 500 different liver functions.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Men without hair on their chests are more likely to get cirrhosis of the liver than men with hair.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The longest recorded bout of hiccups lasted for 65 years.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The longest recorded sneezing fit lasted 978 days. </span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your stomach has 35 million digestive glands.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your stomach has to produce a new layer of mucus every two weeks otherwise it will digest itself.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">At the moment of conception, you spent about half an hour as a single cell.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">There is about one trillion bacteria on each of your feet.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Each square inch of human skin consists of twenty feet of blood vessels.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">There are no two tongue prints that are alike.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your body contains about four ounces of salt.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Injured fingernails grow faster than uninjured ones.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Women blink twice as much as men.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Most people blink about 25 times a minute.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">It is impossible for the average person to sneeze with their eyes open. Closing your eyes during a sneeze is a reflex action. </span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The average person's skin weighs twice as much as their brain.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">When you are looking at someone you love, your pupils dilate, they do the same when you are looking at someone you hate.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">It takes twice as long to lose new muscle if you stop working out than it did to gain it.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The three things pregnant women dream most of during their first trimester are 1) frogs 2) worms 3) potted plants.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your body gives off enough heat in 30 minutes to bring half a gallon of water to a boil.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Blondes have more hair than dark-haired people.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The largest internal organ is the small intestine. Despite being called the smaller of the two intestines, your small intestine is actually four times as long as the average adult is tall.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Facial hair grows faster than any other hair on the body.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Bone is stronger, inch for inch, than the steel in skyscrapers.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">About one third of the human race has 20-20 vision.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">In a hot climate, you can sweat as much as 3 gallons of water a day.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Fingernails are made from the same substance as a bird's beak.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">A runner consumes about 7 quarts of oxygen while running a 100-yard dash.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Among the first known "dentists" of the world were the Etruscans. In 700 BC they carved false teeth from the teeth of various mammals and produced partial bridgework good enough to eat with.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The enamel in your teeth is the hardest substance in your body.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your teeth start growing 6 months before you are born.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your big toes have two bones each while the rest have three.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">A pair of human feet contain 250,000 sweat glands.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Ophthalmic surgery was one of the most advanced areas of medicine in the ancient world. Detailed descriptions of delicate cataract surgery with sophisticated needle syringes is contained in the medical writings of Celsus (A.D. 14-37)</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Living brain cells are bright pink.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">You're ears secrete more earwax when you are afraid than when you aren't.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your body uses 300 muscles to balance itself when you are standing still.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">If saliva cannot dissolve something, you cannot taste it.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Your body contains the same amount of iron as an iron nail.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The average woman is 5 inches shorter than the average man.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The ashes of a cremated person average about 9 pounds. A big part of what gives the human body weight is the water trapped in our cells.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Every human spent about half an hour as a single cell.</span></li>
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<li style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">About 32 million bacteria call every inch of your skin home.</span></li>
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<strong style="background-color: #c27ba0; border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="font-size: large;">“We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.” -~Sam Keen</span></strong></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="font-size: large;">Before I married my wonderful husband, I dated a lot of men. For most of my 20s (and even my early 30s) I had a perfect fairy-ideal of what romantic love was, probably because I was an actress and <a href="http://tinybuddha.com/blog/7-crucial-steps-to-minimize-drama-in-your-life/" style="border: 0px; color: #7dc0f0; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: initial; vertical-align: baseline;" target="_blank" title="7 Crucial Steps to Minimize Drama in Your Life">loved drama</a> back then.</span></span></div>
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<strong style="background-color: #c27ba0; border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: orange; font-size: x-large;">It took years for me to realize a relationship is not a romance movie.</span></strong></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="font-size: large;">At some point in our lives, we may believe that love should be like the kind of romance we see portrayed in films, television, and novels.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="font-size: large;">For some reason, I always thought my romantic relationships were less if I did not experience this kind of fairy-tale relationship. Maybe this is why I kept meeting frogs.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="font-size: large;">At times, I bought into the belief that if I had a relationship with the perfect prince, then all would be well in my life. I thought, <em style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Now, I will be safe forever</em>.</span></span></div>
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<strong style="background-color: #c27ba0; border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="color: orange;">In truth, I <em style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">did</em> marry a prince—but a prince who is also human, who has faults and issues just like every person, no matter how wonderful he is</span><span style="color: #4d4d4d;">.</span></span></strong></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="font-size: large;">At some point I grew up and learned to <a href="http://tinybuddha.com/blog/20-ways-to-let-go-of-regrets/" style="border: 0px; color: #7dc0f0; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: initial; vertical-align: baseline;" target="_blank" title="20 Ways to Let Go of Regrets">let go</a> of the crazy metaphor of romantic love in order to find true happiness. Yes, I was disappointed to realize that the knight riding through the night to save the damsel in distress is a fallacy. It’s a bummer.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="font-size: large;">But, let’s look at it in this light: We all saw <em style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Romeo and Juliet</em> and <em style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Titanic</em>. Why stories like these make our hearts sing is that the love is <em style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">unrequited. </em>Unavailability fuels the romantic expression.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="font-size: large;">This kind of romantic story can only work when there is an absence of the lover. Sometimes, they have to die in the end in order for their love to fit into this romantic view. Or, we eat handfuls of popcorn, waiting to see if they live happily ever after, and we rarely find out if they really do.</span></span></div>
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<strong style="background-color: #c27ba0; border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: #f6b26b; font-size: x-large;">The romantic love fantasy is really a substitute for intimacy—real, connected, vulnerable intimacy.</span></strong></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="font-size: large;">So then, how do we make relationships work and stay happy?<span id="more-12407" style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="font-size: large;">We begin with the understanding of what pure love is, and then redefine and update the romantic fairytale into a healthier type of love.</span></span></div>
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<strong style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background-color: #eeeeee; color: #a64d79; font-size: x-large;">Here are 10 ways to create true intimacy, find pure love, and be truly happy in your relationship:</span></strong></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;">1. <strong style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Use relationships to teach you how to be whole within</strong>.</span></h3>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="color: white;">Relationships aren’t about having another person complete you, but coming to the relationship whole and sharing your life interdependently. By letting go of the romantic ideal of merging and becoming “one,” you learn as Rainer Maria Rilke says, to love the distances in relationship as much as the togetherness<em style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">.</em></span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;">2. <strong style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">See your partner for who he or she really is.</strong></span></h3>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="color: white;">The romantic tragedy occurs when you view the person you are in love with as a symbol of what they have come to represent, the<em style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> idea</em> of them. When you realize that more often than not you don’t really know your partner, you begin to discover who they are and how they change and evolve.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;">3. <strong style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Be willing to learn from each other.</strong></span></h3>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="color: white;">The key is to see the other as a mirror and learn from the reflection how you can be a better person. When you feel upset, rather than blame your partner and point fingers, remain awake to what has yet to be healed in yourself.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;">4. <strong style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Get comfortable being alone.</strong></span></h3>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="color: white;">In order to accept that love can’t rescue you from being alone, learn to spend time being with yourself. By feeling safe and secure to be on your own within the framework of relationship, you will feel more complete, happy, and whole.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;">5. <strong style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Look closely at why a fight may begin.</strong></span></h3>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="color: white;">Some couples create separateness by fighting and then making up over and over again. This allows you to continue the romantic trance, creating drama and avoiding real intimacy. If you become aware of what you fear about intimacy, you’ll have a better sense of why you’re fighting—and likely will fight far less.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;">6. <strong style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Own who you are.</strong></span></h3>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="color: white;">We generally grasp at<strong style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> </strong>romantic love because we’re yearning for something that is out of reach, something in another person that we don’t think we possess in ourselves. Unfortunately, when we finally get love, we discover that we didn’t get what we were looking for.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="color: white;">True love only exists by <a href="http://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-to-love-your-authentic-self/" style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: initial; vertical-align: baseline;" target="_blank" title="How to Love Your Authentic Self">loving yourself</a> first. You can only get from another person what you’re willing to give yourself.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><strong style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">7. Embrace ordinariness</strong>.</span></h3>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="color: white;">After the fairy-dust start of a relationship ends, we discover ordinariness, and we often do everything we can to avoid it. The trick is to see that ordinariness can become the real “juice” of intimacy. The day-to-day loveliness of sharing life with a partner can, and does, become extraordinary.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;">8. <strong style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Expand your heart</strong>.</span></h3>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="color: white;">One thing that unites us is that we all long to be happy. This happiness usually includes the desire to be close to someone in a loving way. To create real intimacy, get in touch with the spaciousness of your heart and bring awareness to what is good within you.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="color: white;">It’s easier to recognize the good in your partner when you’re connected to the good in yourself.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;">9. <strong style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Focus on giving love.</strong></span></h3>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="color: white;">Genuine happiness is not about feeling good about ourselves because other people love us; it’s more about how well we have loved ourselves and others. The unintentional outcome of loving others more deeply is that <em style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">we</em> are loved more deeply.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="font-size: large;">10. <strong style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Let go of expectations</strong>.</span></span></h3>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="color: white;">You may look to things such as romance and constant togetherness to fill a void in yourself. This will immediately cause suffering. If you unconsciously <a href="http://tinybuddha.com/blog/20-ways-to-give-without-expectations/" style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: initial; vertical-align: baseline;" target="_blank" title="20 Ways to Give Without Expectations">expect to receive</a> love in certain ways to avoid giving that love to yourself, you will put your sense of security in someone else.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="color: white;">Draw upon your own inner-resources to offer love, attention, and nurturance to yourself when you need it. Then you can let love come to you instead of putting expectations on what it needs to look like.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="color: white;">These are only a few ways to explore real intimacy. How do you create a loving connection in your relationship?</span></span></div>
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Sambal Udang Petaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06457364370151867719noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489920081218237631.post-3794625902772847992013-01-29T09:43:00.002+08:002013-01-30T08:02:58.339+08:00Love Story #1<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: verdana;">It all started when I was 6 years old.I was playing outside the house near the fence when I met him at the first time.We had wonderful time playing together like the other kids eventhough at first, we were more enjoying beating each other up. It was so immature but yet, it make us become more and more closer each day. Starting from that moment, we would see each other at the fence everyday and spending our time together.</i></span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="color: #333333; font-family: verdana;"><span style="background-color: #c27ba0;"><span style="color: black;">I felt so comfortable enough that I told him everything. Even all my secrets! And like always, he rather be quite and just listen to all my stories patiently. I felt more comfortable having someone who I can really talk to. We went to the same school, but not the same friends. So everyday, we always have something to talk about. About school, friends and everything. Even about my crush! Then one day, I told him that I am very sad because a guy that I like broke my heart. He immediately calm me down, and said that everything will be fine. He helped me a lot that I finally forget about the guy and was happy spending more time with him. He was being such a good friend to me until I realize that there's more about him that I like</span>. </span></i></span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: verdana;">I thought about it for the whole night. I do feel something about him but I just don't know what it is. So I just let the feeling away as I told myself that we are just a good friend. We always been together, that we've been in the same school until we graduated. I kept in mind that he's only my friend but somehow my feeling towards him grow and grow each day. I know that I cannot hold it any longer. So I decided to tell him about my feeling on the night of our graduation day. On that day, our university held a dinner for the graduates. Both of us went to the dinner with our own date. The event was great, I met a lot of friend there but all I can say that, my eyes can't stop from staring at him. All I want that night, is just to be him alone. I want to make the night ends perfectly as plan. So after the dinner, I went to his house to tell him about my feeling. We were sitting outside watching the stars silently.Then we start to talk about our future plans. </i></span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: verdana;">That night, he looked into my eyes and told me a lot about his dreams. How he want to settle down, getting married, having kids and to be rich and successful person. I really admire him. The feeling I have towards him become much more stronger but at the end, I wasted the chance to tell him about my feeling.</i></span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="font-family: verdana;"><span style="background-color: #a64d79;">Eventhough I cannot hold any longer the feeling I have for him, I still don't have courage to face him and tell him directly. I just can't imagine what will happen after I tell him. Is he going to accept me? What will be his reaction? And the worst is, what will I do if he rejects me? How can I face him after that? Can we still be friend like before? All this question make me become <span style="font-size: small;">more</span> scared. I tell myself that someday, I will have a chance to tell him how much I want to be with him, that all I want to do is to love and to take care of him until the end of our lifes. I wanted to tell him how I feel so complete whenever I am with him. </span></i></span></b><br />
<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="font-family: verdana;"><span style="background-color: #a64d79;"> After a few months, he got a job offer at the city. I was happy for him for the offer but I am sad because he will leave me soon. The night he left, I hugged him tightly as if it was our last time together. I feel so sad as I cry on his shoulder but still, I couldn't tell him that I love him and to just stay with me forever.So there he goes, off to the city chasing for his dream while I decided to wait for him.</span></i></span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: verdana;">That night<span style="font-size: small;">, after i reac<span style="font-size: small;">hed <span style="font-size: small;">my home, I cried my eyes out. I felt like <span style="font-size: small;">a part of me have l<span style="font-size: small;">eft with him. <span style="font-size: small;">As the day pass<span style="font-size: small;">es by, I go through the days <span style="font-size: small;">slowly without him, let m<span style="font-size: small;">yself busy so that I won't think of him that much. I can see him <span style="font-size: small;">in<span style="font-size: small;"> each place we've been together, and <span style="font-size: small;">everything seems to remind me of him. It was hard to face <span style="font-size: small;">all th<span style="font-size: small;">e days without him. <span style="font-size: small;">This time I know that my feelings to<span style="font-size: small;">wards him is real. I know that he's the right guy. <span style="font-size: small;">But nevertheless<span style="font-size: small;">, I never heard any news from him<span style="font-size: small;">. I thought that he was busy building his career and so I wait for him to come back one day. Until...</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></i></span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: verdana;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;">One <span style="font-size: small;">fine day, I received a letter. It was from him!<span style="font-size: small;"> My heart crush as I open the letter and to find out that it was actually a wedding invitation. I <span style="font-size: small;">cannot describe my feeling at th<span style="font-size: small;">at time. To <span style="font-size: small;">see the name of </span>someone that I love so much</span></span></span></span> on the car<span style="font-size: small;">d, marrying <span style="font-size: small;">a girl who is not me! <span style="font-size: small;">Eventhough it's hard, <span style="font-size: small;">I know that now <span style="font-size: small;">I can stop hoping for him. That we will stay as friends <span style="font-size: small;">like before. <span style="font-size: small;">I have to <span style="font-size: small;">face the truth that we are never meant to be together. I <span style="font-size: small;">should <span style="font-size: small;">be happy for him. Atleast I know that someone w<span style="font-size: small;">ill <span style="font-size: small;">love and take care of him<span style="font-size: small;">. But it's not me!</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span> </span></span></i></span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="color: #333333; font-family: verdana;"><span style="background-color: #a64d79;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">And so the day finally come. <span style="font-size: small;">Eventhough it <span style="font-size: small;">hurts so bad</span>, I still went to his wedding. It's the happiest day<span style="font-size: small;"> of his life but <span style="font-size: small;">it was not for me. How I wish I am the br<span style="font-size: small;">ide. <span style="font-size: small;">I saw him <span style="font-size: small;">with his bride, far away from my table. But the feeling is still the same<span style="font-size: small;">. <span style="font-size: small;">I still falling in love with him! I <span style="font-size: small;">was trying so hard <span style="font-size: small;">to gather myself together again<span style="font-size: small;"> while<span style="font-size: small;"> watching the love of my life <span style="font-size: small;">marrying someone else. So<span style="font-size: small;"> I think,<span style="font-size: small;"> that's it! I can never have him again. After the ceremony<span style="font-size: small;"> finished, <span style="font-size: small;">I<span style="font-size: small;"> <span style="font-size: small;">leave the place in a hurry<span style="font-size: small;">. I only realized that I was followed by him whe<span style="font-size: small;">n he stops me<span style="font-size: small;">, and he sa<span style="font-size: small;">id <span style="font-size: small;">that how much he <span style="font-size: small;">appreciate<span style="font-size: small;"> that I came to the wedding and h<span style="font-size: small;">ow happy is him just by seeing me.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></i></span></b><br />
<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="color: #333333; font-family: verdana;"><span style="background-color: #a64d79;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;">After I reach <span style="font-size: small;">my home, I decided to move on. <span style="font-size: small;">I need to move on. <span style="font-size: small;">I need to <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;">realize</span> that there<span style="font-size: small;"> is no more hope for our relationship. <span style="font-size: small;">He is no<span style="font-size: small;">t more than just a friend to me. </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></i></span><i style="color: #333333; font-family: verdana;">We keep <span style="font-size: small;">in touch by sending emails everyday. He did tell me how much he miss me, <span style="font-size: small;">and our childhood memories. <span style="font-size: small;">But <span style="font-size: small;">he never<span style="font-size: small;"> <span style="font-size: small;">mention about his marriage <span style="font-size: small;">life to me.<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></i></b><br />
<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="color: #333333; font-family: verdana;"><span style="background-color: #a64d79;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;">O</span>ne day, I stopped receive emails from him. He <span style="font-size: small;">suddenly <span style="font-size: small;">disappeared<span style="font-size: small;">. </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></i></span><i style="color: #333333; font-family: verdana;">I even wrote to him se<span style="font-size: small;">veral times, but still no replies.</span> </i></b><br />
<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: verdana;"><br />I<span style="font-size: small;"> get worried<span style="font-size: small;"> <span style="font-size: small;">about him<span style="font-size: small;"> but i have n<span style="font-size: small;">o idea how to <span style="font-size: small;">find him. Until one day, I get a <span style="font-size: small;">note right in front of my door</span>, it<span style="font-size: small;"> says;</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></i></span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: verdana;">I w<span style="font-size: small;">ent <span style="font-size: small;">out of the house quickly and I saw him standing by the fence. My heart was <span style="font-size: small;">beating very fast<span style="font-size: small;">. I feel like I'm the most happiest person in the world. I ran quickly to<span style="font-size: small;"> him and <span style="font-size: small;">he hugged me so ti<span style="font-size: small;">ght by his arm. I found <span style="font-size: small;">out t<span style="font-size: small;">hat <span style="font-size: small;">he actually fe<span style="font-size: small;">lt very sad and he was broken<span style="font-size: small;">-hearted at that time. He told me <span style="font-size: small;">about hi<span style="font-size: small;">s divorce<span style="font-size: small;">, how he felt so miserable<span style="font-size: small;"> about it. <span style="font-size: small;">He even cried that night.<span style="font-size: small;"> We then cont<span style="font-size: small;">inue<span style="font-size: small;"> talking, laughing, and enjoying <span style="font-size: small;">our time tog<span style="font-size: small;">ether<span style="font-size: small;">. I can see that I still have some hope for him, for our future together. I tried to cheer him up as much as I can. To be with him whenever <span style="font-size: small;">he needed me.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></i></span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: verdana;">went and saw him there. I was happy to see him, but he was broken-hearted and sad inside. We hugged until we couldn't breathe anymore. Then he told me about the divorce and why he hadn't written for a long time. He cried until he couldn't cry anymore. Finally, we went back to the house and talked and laughed about what I had been going and to catch up on old times. But in all of this, I couldn't tell him how I felt about him. In the days that followed, he had fun and forgot about all his problem and his divorce. I fell in love again with him. When it came time for him to leave back to New York, I went to see him off and cried. I hated to see him leave. He promised to see me every time he could get a vacation. </i></span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="font-family: verdana;"><span style="background-color: #a64d79;">I couldn't wait for him to come so I could be with him. We would always have fun when we were together. One day he didn't show up like he said he would. I figured that he might have been busy. The days turned into months and I just forgot about it. Then I got a call one day from a lawyer in Kuala Lumpur. The lawyer said that he had died in a car accident going to the airport. And that it took this long till everything was settled. It broke my heart. I was shocked about what took place. Now I knew why he didn't come that day. Again, I was broken-hearted. I cried that night, cried tears of sadness and heartache. Asking questions why did this happen to a kind guy like him? I gathered my things and went to Kuala Lumpur for the reading of his will.<br />Of course, things were given to his family and his ex-wife. I finally got to meet her since the last time we met at the wedding. She explained to me how he was and how he always provided. But he was always unhappy. She would always try everything but she couldn't get him happy, as he was that night at their wedding. When the will was read, the one thing that was given to me was a diary. It was a dairy that of his life. </span></i></span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-size: small;"><i style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: verdana;">I cried as it was given to me... As I flew on the plane I remembered the good times that we had together. I started reading the diary and what was written. The diary was started with the day we first met. I read on till I started to cry. The diary told of him saying that he had fallen in love with me that day I was broken-hearted. But he was too afraid to tell me what he had felt. That is why he was so quiet and liked to listen to me. It told of how he wanted to tell me so many times, but was too afraid to say anything. It told of when he went to Kuala Lumpur and fell in love with another. How the happiest time he had was seeing me and dancing with me at the wedding. He said he imagined it was our wedding. How he was always unhappy till he had no choice but to divorce his wife. How the best time in his life was to read the letters written to him by me. Finally, the diary ended when it said, "today I will tell her I love her". It was the day he was killed. The day I was going to finally find out what was really in his heart.<br /><br />If you love someone, don't wait till tomorrow to tell him/her. Maybe that next day will never come at all</i></span></b>Sambal Udang Petaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06457364370151867719noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489920081218237631.post-20697709030780578732013-01-29T09:01:00.001+08:002013-01-29T09:46:37.846+08:0035 ways to create lasting friendships<br />
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<span style="background-color: #444444; color: white; font-size: large;">To create and enjoy lasting friendships takes effort </span><br />
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<li><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Know yourself.</span></strong> In order to make friends, we need to know who we are. You may want to check out this article and work out <a href="http://goodlifezen.com/2008/06/16/35-things-that-make-you-special/" style="border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 170, 51); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #77aa33; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: initial;">what is special about you. </a>If you are not clear on what your life purpose is, <a href="http://goodlifezen.com/2008/07/15/15-questions-that-reveal-your-ultimate-purpose-in-life/" style="border-bottom-color: rgb(119, 170, 51); border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-width: 1px; color: #77aa33; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: initial;">these questions</a> will help you.<span style="color: white;">.</span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Spend time around people.</span></strong><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 24px;"> You can’t find friends in the cupboard.</span></span></span></span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: black;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Be kind</span></strong><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">. Look at what you can do for other to make their life easier.</span></span></li>
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<li style="background-color: #444444;"><span style="color: white; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">.<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">When travelling, talk to everyone you meet.</span></strong></span><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;"> I’ve made wonderful friendships following it.</span><span style="color: white; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">,</span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Beware of sexual flings with friend. </span></strong><span style="font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: black; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Many friedships don’t survive it</span></span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Don’t compromise your values</span></strong><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">. Keep you standards of morality and behaviour and don’t change them just to fit in with friend or a group.</span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #e06666;"><strong style="font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Don’t gossip</span></strong><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">. If a new friend hears you revealing personal stories of othere, he or she will be wary of your discretion.</span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Ask the other person open-ended questions about their life</span></strong><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">. </span><span style="color: #8e7cc3; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">Openended questions are ones that can’t be answered by saying ‘yes’, or ‘no’.</span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Share more deeply with a friend</span></strong><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">. </span><span style="color: #f6b26b; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">Let them know what your life feels like. This is key difference between a friend and an aquaintance.</span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Keep the sharing equal</span></strong><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">. </span><span style="color: white; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">Don’t hog the time with your problems.</span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Have even roles in the relationship</span></strong><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">. </span><span style="color: #93c47d; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">If you notice that you are always the listener and she the star</span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Switch roles regularly in your friendships</span></strong><span style="color: #ff6600; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: black; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">. If there is one who always calls the shots, the friendship won’t last.</span></span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Listen to your friend</span></strong><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">. </span><span style="color: #f9cb9c; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">Listening is the number one glue of friendships.</span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Keep confidences</span></strong><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">. </span><span style="font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">Nothing kills a budding friendship faster than spilled secrets.</span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Allow your friend to help you</span></strong><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">. </span><span style="color: #ffe599; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">Give and take has to be balanced in a friendship. </span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Share the bad times</span></strong><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">. </span><span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">Help your friend when things go bad. Allow your friends to help you when times are difficult.</span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Keep contact</span></strong><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">. </span><span style="color: #45818e; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">Check in regularly with your friend. A short text message, email or phone call keeps a friendship alive</span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Don’t crowd your friend</span></strong><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">. </span><span style="font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">Make sure you don’t overwhelm – or even stalk – him or her.</span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Keep talking through difficult times</span></strong><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">. </span><span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">Don’t let disagreements fes</span><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">ter</span></span></li>
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<li><span style="background-color: #444444;"><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">If there is a rift, apologize for the hurt you caused.</span></strong><span style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;"> </span><span style="color: #e06666; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">It’s more important to keep your friendship going than to be ‘right’.</span></span></li>
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<li><strong style="color: #505050; font-family: Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: #444444; color: #ff6600; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">If a friendship is damaging your life or your family relationships, you may need to let it go.</span></strong></li>
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<span style="background-color: #444444; color: #cccccc;">You’ll notice that I haven’t mentioned online friends. That’s because this is still an area that I’m exploring. I’ve made some lovely friends on the Internet in the last few months, but I don’t know how such friendships progress and deepen long-term. <strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">What experiences do you have of online friendships?</strong> Please let me know in the comments.</span><br />
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Sambal Udang Petaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06457364370151867719noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489920081218237631.post-47599560336656510502013-01-29T06:02:00.000+08:002013-01-29T06:05:17.768+08:00HINDARI PERANG DINGIN KAMU & SI DIA<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: #d5a6bd; color: blue;">SAYA BENCI AWAK!!! BENCI!! KENAPA AWAK MESTI HADIR DALAM HIDUP SAYA? TIKA HATI MULA RASA SAYANG, AWAK HANCURKAN PERASAAN SAYA DENGAN MUDAHNYA. APA SEMUA INI? SAYA BUKAN BONEKA!! SAYA JUGA MACAM INSAN LAIN PUNYA HATI DAN PERASAAN. MUNGKIN SAYA TAK SEMPURNA SEPERTI INSAN LAIN. PERGILAH AWAK, TINGGALKAN SAYA SENDIRIAN.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: black; color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Mengangis dan terus menagis, itu sahaja ubat yang mampu menyembuhkan kelukaan kamu tika ini. Apa maknanya sayang jika hati semakin membengkak? Kamu keliru dengan perasaan kam sendiri. Ada kalanya kamu akui bahawa persengketaan yang berlaku berpunca daripada diri kamu sendiri yang terlalu beremosi, Buntu? apa ayng perlu kamu lakukan? Adakah antara kamu masih ada rs sayang ataupun sebaliknya? Jom semak !!!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: x-large;"><b>1. Fakta: Kamu terlalu menjengkelkan.</b></span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: black; color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Alasan: Kadang2 Si dia bingung dgn kerenah kamu yang pelbagai. Bosan setiap kali berlakunya pergaduhan kamu da. si dia pasti mengakhiri peperangan itu dgn tidak bertegur sapa. Kamu cukup ego! Sebelum terlambat baik berubah, jangan sampai si dia meninggalkan kamu. Waktu itu menangis air mata darah punbelum tentu si dia akan memaafkan kamu. Malah berpaling juga si dia tak mahu.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: x-large;"><b>2. Fakta: Emosi tak terkawal.</b></span><br />
<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Alasan: kalian memang bermasalah. kalau ya pun janganlah melampau sangat. Ini tidak, bergaduh macam budak2. Cuba jadi matang sedikit. Bila emosi tu mula menguasai diri, mmg ia akan mencetuskan permasalahan. Antara kalian akan wujud rasa tidak selesa.Kamu dgn cara kamu dan dia dgn cara dia.. smp bila2 pun pernag dingin ini x kn berakhir.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: x-large;"><b>3. Fakta: Berprasangka Buruk.</b></span><br />
<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Alasan: Mmg susah kalau dapat kekasih seperti kamu. Ada sahaja benda yang nak di gaduhkan.Kamu seolah2 menganggap si dia berlaku curang 24 jam.selalu sangat berprasangka buruk.Walhal kamu tau dia tu mmg setia habis. Ada kala tuduhan kamu tu lgsg tidak berasas. Kamu jangan bermacam2, drp dia jujur dan setia terus bertukar rupa. Jadi berwaspada la ek..</span><br />
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<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: x-large;"><b>4. Fakta: Cemburu Buta.</b></span><br />
<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Alasan: Oh tidak! kenapa mesti dapat kekasih yang kuat cemburu? sakit jiwalah jawabnya. Saban hari sid dia pasti jemu utk menjelaskan setiap ke-tidak-puas-hati-an kamu..Setiap hari terpaksa menjawap soalan2 maut dari kamu..Selagi tak mendapat </span><br />
<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">jawapan yang sahih kamu tidak akan berhenti.Jangan terlalu mendesak, Kamu kena ingat.. apabila kamu sudah commit to each other.. kamu kena semai rs percaya antara satu sama lain. Cemburu tu x salah.. tp berpada2 la.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: x-large;"><b>5. Fakta: Tidak memahami.</b></span><br />
<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Alasan: Ini masalah terbesar kamu. Kalau boleh ubahlah cara kamu,jangan terlalu inginkan orang lain memahami dirimu sebaliknya kamu lgsg tidak mahu belajar memahami diri nya. Cuba kamu fikir.. setiap kali berlakunya selisih faham, siapa yang paling banyak beralah ? siapa yang paling byk memujuk ? siapa yang paling banyak meredakan kemarahanmu ? sudah tentu si diakan ? sebolehnya si dia cuba menjaga hati kamu drp terluka. jadi tolong la belajar memahami dan jangan terlalu mengikut perasaan.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: x-large;"><b>6. Fakta: Sukar terima pandangan.</b></span><br />
<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Alasan: Kamu mmg sukar utk ditegur. Ada sahaja benda yang kamu nak bidaskan. Kadang kala si dia pun panas hati. Kamu lgsg tidak menghormatinya sebagai seorg lelaki. Apa sahaja pandangan dan teguran yang diberikan.. kamu cepat sangat melenting. Susah sgt ke nak terima atau buat2 terima pendapat si dia ? Kamu kena ingat setiap teguran and nasihat (walau x masuk akal) adalah lambang kasih sayang si dia terhadap kamu.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: x-large;"><b>7. Fakta: Mengada-ngada.</b></span><br />
<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Alasan: Perlukah semua itu? nak itu dan ini si dia yang buat kan. serba x kena dlm hidup kamu.. komplen.. walaupun x masuk akal.. semua kamu lambak kan pd si dia? Klu si dia tak mampu atau terlepas pandang.. kamu memberontak.. mcm si dia tu xder kerja len dr nk hadap masalah kamu sorang jer.. Si dia pun ader life len jugak.. klu da 24 jam nk hadap masalah kamu.. masalah dia nk letak kat mana? Namu sbb nk jg hati kamu tu.. member tu telan jer la.. Blajar2 la hargai and cuba la hargai si dia.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: x-large;"><b>8. Fakta: Kuat merajuk.</b></span><br />
<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Alasan: Merajuk! merajuk! Itu saje yang kau tau.. Tak dapat skit.. muncung leh tambat ngan tali kambing. Sesungguh pun sifat rajuk tu sifat semulajadi hawa.. x perlula korang nk "mutant " kan perasaan tu lebey2..Kamu ingat sumer org leh handle ke perasaan kamu tu..? Sekali sekala x salah nk merajuk ringan2.. Tp klu da kronik sgt.. sumer jantan pun jalan.. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">Secara Ilmiahnya.. cuba kamu letakkan diri kamu tu di tempat si dia.. bayangkan stress kering yang si dia nak hadap dgn mentaliti kamu.. Cuba anda bayangkan ...</span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Hari Nie Bro Janggut post lagi beberapa persoalan secara general dari beberapa sessi Ustaz Azhar Idrus.. Mari kiter berkongsi dan renung2 kan..</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Soalan #1</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Apakah hukum memakai baju melayu sutera thai (thai silk) sempena hari raya Aidilfitri ? Setahu saya, memakai sutera hukumnya adalah haram.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Kain sutera asli yang benangnya dihasilkan daripada ulat sutera adalah haram dipakai oleh lelaki. Manakala bagi sutera tiruan yang di buat daripada benang kapas yang bercampur dgn benang sutera.. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Nisbah Benang sutera > Benang kapas- Haram bg lelaki.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Nisbah Benang Kapas > Benang sutera- Harus dipakai oleh lelaki.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Jika nisbah itu tidak diketahui.. maka ia jatuh pd hukum "uruf" iaitu hukum kebiasaan.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Soalan #2</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Boleh kah saya menjawab salam pelajar yang belum baligh, walhal ibu bapanya bukan beragama islam?</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Mengikut syarak, agama anak bukan islam yang belum baligh adalah mengikut agama ibu bapanya. Sekali pun di sisi Allah mereka dikira belum lagi sebagai orang bukan islam.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Oleh itu, Sebahagian sarjana islam mengatakan cara menjawap salamnya seperti menjawap salam orang bukan islam yang dewasa iaitu cuma " Alaikum " shj.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Ustaz, baru2 nie saya ada terjumpa seutas rantai emas di Mydin. Bagaimanakah cara untuk saya memulangkan kembali rantai itu sedangkan saya tidak tahu siapa tuannya?</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Sesiapa yang menemui barangan yang tercicir di jalanan, maka dia tidak wajib mengambil barang itu. Apabila diambil, maka wajib dia mengiklankan penemuan itu di kawasan tempat barang itu di temui.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Selepas usaha itu tidak berjaya dalam tempoh setahun, maka barang itu boleh dimiliki oleh orang yang menemuinya.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Penemu brg itu perlu merekod jenis barang dan nilainya sebelum menjual ataupun mendermakannya supaya mudah menggantikannya apabila pemilik asal ditemui.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Soalan #4</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Apakah hukum menggantung gambar tokoh2 agama di dinding ? bagaimana pula hukum menggantung gambar perkahwinan ?</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Pendapat sarjana islam yang muktabar, tidak harus menggantung gambar2 bernyawa di dinding rumah ( gambar perkahwinan dan sebagainya ).</span><br />
<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Sebahagian sarjana islam mengatakan harus gambar2 yang mengingatkan manusia kepada akhirat seperti gambar sarjana2 islam yang tersohor dan org soleh dgn syarat bukan menjadikan sbg perhiasan. Pendapat ini adalah pendapat paling sedikit dikalangan sarjana islam.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Saya membaca dalam akhbar, ada mufti menyatakan boleh memakai gelang dengan tujuan kesihatan. Setahu saya, perkara yang jelas haram tetap haram. Apakah Hukumnya ?</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Berkemungkinan maksud mufti itu memakai gelang bertujuan perubatab yang disyaratkan tidak ada niat berhias dan bentuknya tidak menyamai gelang perhiasan.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Sekiranya gelang yang kebiasaan dipakai oleh orang ramai, Hukumnya adalah haram kerana bentuknya adalah jelas sebagai perhiasan.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Soalan #6</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Adakah lafaz insya-Allah itu dikira satu janji ?</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Lafaz Insya-Allah tidak dikira sebagai berjanji kerana ia hanya perkataan yang bertujuan mengingatkan bahawa kita hanya mampu merancang tetapi Allah ayng menentukan.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Janji perlu dilafazkan dgn jelas seperti:</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">" Bila kamu mahu membayar hutang saya? "</span><br />
<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Kemudian menjawab " saya bayar ESOK, Insya-Allah "</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Soalan #7</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Saya bekerja di dlm sektor perhotelan selama 10 tahun. Di tempat saya bekerja ada bahagian yang menghidangkan minuman keras dan kebanyakannya dikendali oleh org melayu. Menurut pandangan ustaz, adakah saya termasuk dalam golongan orang yang subahat ? adakah pendapatan bulanan saya 100% rezeki yang halal ? Jualan minuman keras it termasuk dengan pandapatan hotel yang lain.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Sesiapa yang terlibat secara langsung dengan minuman keras ini seperti membeli, menghidangkan, mengangkat ataupun seumpamanya, maka dia dilaknat oleh Allah. Dia dikira bersubahat dengan orang yang meminum arak itu. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Pekerja yang tidak terlibat scara langsung tidak termasuk yang kena laknat. Manakala pendapatan yang diperolehinya tidak berkat.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Soalan #8</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Adakah boleh hijab ( penutup tabir) antara bahagian perempuan dibuka semasa majlis ilmu diadakan ? Apakah Hukumnya ?</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Menurut pendapat sarjana islam, Sekiranya pendengar yang terdiri daripada perempuan itu ramai, maka harus belajar dengan guru lelaki tanpa ada tabir. Sekiranya seorang, maka tidak harus kerana ia boleh mendatangkan fitnah..</span><br />
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<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">Begitu lah serba sedikit yang bro cuba kongsikan.. Marilah kita renung2 kan. Aminnnn...</span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f;"><br /></span>Sambal Udang Petaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06457364370151867719noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489920081218237631.post-53662146974615509572013-01-14T00:04:00.001+08:002013-01-14T00:04:04.827+08:00Problem or Solution? You choose..Assalammualaikum..<br />
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<span style="color: #f9cb9c; font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>When <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nasa" style="border: 0px; cursor: pointer; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: initial; vertical-align: baseline;">NASA</a> began launching astronauts into space, they found out that the pens they tool would not work in zero gravity because ink wouldn’t flow down to the writing surface. It took them one decade and $12 million to solve this problem. They developed a pen that worked in zero gravity, upside down, underwater, in practically any surface including crystal and in a temperature range from below freezing to over 300 degrees C.</i></span></div>
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<span style="color: #f9cb9c; font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>One of Japan ‘s biggest cosmetics companies received a complaint that a consumer had bought a soap box that was empty. Immediately management isolated the problem to the assembly line, which transported all the packaged boxes of soap to the delivery department. They found that one soap box had gone through the assembly line completely empty. Management looked to its engineers to solve the problem from happening again. Post-haste, the engineers worked hard to devise an X-ray machine with high-resolution monitors manned by two people to watch to make sure all the soap boxes that passed through the line were full. They worked hard and they worked fast but they spent an extensive amount of time and money to find a solution.</i></span></div>
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<span style="color: #f9cb9c; font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>But when an employee in a small company was posed with the same problem, he did not get into complications of X-rays, etc., but instead came out with another solution. He bought a strong industrial fan and pointed it at the assembly line. He switched the fan on, and as each soap box passed the fan, it simply blew the empty boxes out of the line.</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Nampak tak persamaan yang cuba disampaikan disini? We need to focus on the solution..be part of the solution not the problem!!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Kebenarannya, kita sebenarnya sangat dipengaruhi oleh apa yang kita percaya dan apa yang kita focuskan dalam kehidupan kita. Which means, jika kita terlalu focuskan kepada masalah kita, kita tend to attract more problem dalam diri kita. Perasan tak kenapa orang yang kita nampak macam takde masalah tu happy je muka dia..kadang2 kita pon jadi pelik..tertanya..'dia ni da la tak pernah ada masalah aku tengok, muka pon nak happyyy jek'..the truth is, if you think positive, all the positive way and solution will always be with you.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Negative thinking is extremely not a good way in solving a problem. It one of the way to make you even more stress by making you not loving in a present time or world. It creates boundaries between you and the real world by living in your own negative imaginary world. Negative thinking akan membuatkan anda focus kepada masalah anda dengan lebih mendalam..membuatkan anda tertanya..kenapa semua ni terjadi kepada aku?..kenapa aku??</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Kita sepatutnya bersyukur dengan masalah kita (I will elaborate more on this on other entry on why we should be grateful for our problem).. Dengan berfikiran positif, anda akan focus kepada cara untuk menyelesaikan masalah tersebut..</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;"><i>Tapi bagaimana mahu berfikiran positif??</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="background-color: yellow;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>1. Mengaku yang anda ada masalah tersebut</b>.</span></span> Daripada kita bertanya, "Aku tak percaya semua ni berlaku kat aku"..kita sepatutnya, "Ok, this is really happening to me..like seriously happening!!" Just as simple as a drug addict want to stop..He/she need to admit first that she have the problem and need a solution. Hadapi masalah tersebut dengan tenang. We should realize that everybody has problem kan? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><b><span style="background-color: yellow; font-size: large;">2.</span></b> Pusing pemikiran anda which is actually in english yang sedap sikit,<span style="background-color: yellow;"><span style="font-size: large;"> <b>turn your way of thinking</b>. </span></span>Jangan menafikan masalah anda..Instead of using, "I don't want all this"..start talking to yourself, "Ini masalah yang aku hadapi sekarang, so let's find a solution for by hook or by crook!!" (ayat bagi semangat sikit) and then.. "so sekarang apa plan aku or step aku untuk menyelesaikan masalah aku ni?"</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><b style="background-color: yellow;"><span style="font-size: large;">3. Start looking for guidance or knowledge or skills.</span></b> Or also a mentor pon boleh jugak. Me myself have a problem in dealing with my negative thinking. So first, I admit that I have this problem and I need a solution for it! Later, I found out that by looking for tips in the internet helps me become better in managing my own feelings and the way I'm thinking. I start to search a lot of stories, blogs etc. But at the end of the day, I believe that I have Allah.. Only Him can help me. So saya berserah kepadaNya sepenuhnya dan selalunya, Alhamdulillah, when I need Him, He always there for me. Tak pernah berputus asa memberi petunjuk. It's all up to you. Some of the people they tend to refer to their parents, bestfriends, boy/girlfriends..but at the end, it's the same..you're not living your life alone.</span></div>
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Till then,</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09933721883179117938noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489920081218237631.post-57615772907115801562013-01-11T00:28:00.006+08:002013-01-11T03:36:23.316+08:00Lelaki tahu ke?<br />
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<span style="background-color: black;">Just few things that men should know about women..Not like each of it mesti ada dalam setiap kaum perempuan..but most of it is true</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black; color: magenta;">1. Bila sorang wanita mengatakan dia sedang bersedih,tetapi dia tidak menitiskan airmata,itu bermakna dia sedang <strong>menangis di dalam hatinya.</strong></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black;">- Actually pompuan lebih suka meluahkan apa yang dia rasa..menceritakan apa masalah dia..in that way she will be happy enough trust me..all men need to do just LISTEN..and she will appreciate you more..you can see it..</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black; color: magenta;">2. Bila dia tidak menghiraukan kamu selepas kamu menyakiti hatinya, lebih baik kamu beri dia masa untuk menenangkan hatinya semula sebelum kamu <strong>menegur dengan ucapan maaf.</strong></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black;"> - Bagi die bertenang..but not tooo long!! Women will start to think too much and most of it direct to the negative way..so let her calm down..but not that long ok</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black; color: magenta;">3. Wanita <strong>sukar nak cari benda yang dia benc</strong><b>i</b> tentang orang yang paling dia sayang </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black;">- So if you break up with a girl, give her space to totally forget you sebab dia akan keep thinking of your good quality as long as you are around them. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black; color: magenta;">4. J<strong>angan sesekali beritahu perempuan yang mereka ni lansung tak berguna.</strong></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black;">- Memang pantang!! And she will keep that in mind forever!!</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black; color: magenta;">5. Jika kamu menyukai sorang wanita,cubalah mulakan dengan <strong>persahabatan</strong>.Kemudian biarkan dia mengenalimu dengan lebih mendalam.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black;">- Kaum hawa lebih tertarik dengan lelaki yang pandai mengambil hatinya..menjadi sahabat baiknya..and that you will always be by her side when she need you..macam tu lah!</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black; color: magenta;">6. Jangan sesekali mengagak apa yang dirasakannya<strong>.Tanya dia sendiri!!</strong></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black;">- Totally true!! You will never know and understand how women think!! So just ask..we love it by the way</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black; color: magenta;">7. Selepas sorang<strong> gadis jatuh cinta</strong>,dia akan sering tertanya-tanya kenapalah aku <strong>tak jumpa lelaki ini lebih awal.</strong></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black;">- If she really ask this to herself, it means that she really happy with you :) </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 18px;"><span style="background-color: black; color: magenta;">9. Senjata wanita adalah airmata!!</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: black; line-height: 18px;">- Hehe..true..true..tapi apabila seorang wanita mengalirkan airmata kerana sedih..dia sememangnya sedang bersedih dan sedang merasa yang "its the end of the world!!" So if you want to talk to a woman, let her calm down first..because when she calm and stop crying, that's mean she starts to open her mind a bit (if not, macammane dia stop kan) and will accept anything positive after that..</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: black; line-height: 18px;">- this is like the best thing ever..she will feel so special..and nothing that she want more than you at that moment</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: black; line-height: 18px;">Now bertambah ilmu sikit tak psal kaum hawa??</span></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09933721883179117938noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489920081218237631.post-21160825215785624962013-01-10T22:57:00.001+08:002013-01-10T22:57:08.963+08:00Soal Jawab Isu Semasa Part 1<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">Hari nie Bro Janggut nak share sedikit Session Soal Jawab Ustaz kegemaran bro dgn korang sumer. Ambe selese dgn pendekatan yang ustaz nie gunakan.. sempoi.. ringkas.. yang penting.. member nie orang Ganu..hehehehe..</span><br />
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<span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">Ustaz, bagaimana cr menguruskan jenazah yang bertukar jantina ?</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Caranya adalah, jenazah di kapankan dan di solatkan mengikut jantina asalnya kerana penukaran jantina yang di lakukan tidak di iktiraf oleh syarak. Sekiranya jenazah itu asalnya lelaki, maka dia akan diuruskan secara lelaki dan sebaliknya.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">Ustaz, apakah hukum makan udang yang tidak dibuang tahi dalam kepalanya ?</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Ia dibolehkan sama ada hendak dibuang ataupun tidak. Memang semua tahi adalah najis, tetapi menurut pendapat para ulama, tahi udang termasuk dalam najis dimaafkan kerana kandungannya sedikit sahaja.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">Ustaz, apakah syarat2 taubat ?</span><br />
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Sekiranya dosa kita hanya berkait antara kita dengan Allah sahaja, contohnya berjudi, menonton filem lucah dan sbgnya, syarat2nya adalah:</span><br />
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<li><span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Berhenti melakukan perkara itu.</span></li>
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Sekiranya kite ade buat dosa dgn org </span><span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;"> ( Hok tu .. memang ramai dok buat tapi dok sedor kediri )</span><br />
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<li><span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Minta dihalalkan apa yang diambil daripada org itu. </span><span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">( Kalu dihalalkan- kalau org tu dok meninggal lagi)</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Mengaku bahawa kita sudah melakukan kesalahan.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Pulangkan semula barangan yang diambil.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Berhenti melakukan perkara itu.</span></li>
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<li><span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Berazam tidak mengulanginya lagi.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Sunat kite berwuduk dan mendirikan solat sunat taubat dua rakaat.</span></li>
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<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">Mung tengok.. betape payoh nye nok mintok maaf kalau buat saloh sesama manusia.. tapi ramai orang lening dok sedor ke diri.. Dok kire tudung labuh ke.. kuat gi masjid ke.. same blake.. renung2 kan la..</span></div>
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<span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">Ustaz, apakah hukum kiter menyertai demonstrasi ?</span></div>
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Hukumnya harus sekiranya ia tidak memudaratkan umat islam.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">So, kepada seapa hok duk rasa nok buat demonstrasi tu tolong la.. jaga perangai tu.. nie malu duk tgk kat tv.. habis kete org laing jadi mangsa.. anok sapa dok tau!!!</span></div>
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<span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">Ustaz, boleh dok apabila kita bermimpi orang yang masih hidup itu meninggal dunia, kiter mempercayai bahawa mimpi itu membawa maksud orang itu panjang umur.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Tiada nas dan dalil yang mengatakan apabila bermimpi orang meninggal, orang itu panjang umur. Mimpi adalah permainan tidur semata-mata dan jangan sampai ia menjadi akidah yang wajib di yakini.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">Yang penting kiter sentiasa doakan semoga insan yang kiter sayangi dipanjangkan umur... Amin.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">Ustaz, apakah doa paling mujarap supaya Allah mengurniakan zuriat kepada kite ?</span></div>
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Boleh amalkan baca ayat2 al-quran seperti berikut. Insya Allah.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">Bile deme doh dapat anak tu.. jangang la abaikan tanggungjawab tu pulok.. (ramai sgt anok2 hok kene dera ke deme )</span></div>
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<span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">ustaz, sekiraya kiter mati dan tidak sempat mengucap dua kalimah syahadah ketika kemalangan jalan raya, adakah kita akan di masukkan dalam neraka ?</span></div>
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<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Tidak ada hadith ataupu ayat al-Quran yang menyebut, sesiapa yang mati dan tidak sempat mengucap syahadahdi sebabkan oleh mati mengejut masuk neraka. Tidak semestinya mereka itu sesat.</span></div>
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<br />Sambal Udang Petaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06457364370151867719noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489920081218237631.post-13672096555615833972013-01-10T16:53:00.000+08:002013-01-10T16:53:57.347+08:00Mental!Salah satu perkara yang bagus bila kita berjalan kat negara orang ni, kita akan dapat belajar tentang mentaliti manusia yang berbeza2.. And somehow we will start to compare it with our people's mentality especially Malay!<br />
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Tidak semestinya jika seorang gadis tu belum berkahwin lagi walaupon usia dia da makin naik bermakna yang dia tidak laku kan? Mungkin dia sendiri yang tak nak kan? Atau maybe dia nak berjaya dalam career dia dulu?Yes, we can still earn it kalau dah kahwin. But can she get the same focus level if she already have a baby on her? No kannn?? So thanks to all those makcik2 yang kuat bergosip pasal anak orang lain tu,all this so-happy-being-single-before-meeting-her-soulmate girl/women ni menjadi stress and worst is, they end up just marry some guy yang ntah hape2 just to shut all those mouth..but the marriage goes unhappy, will those makcik2 nak tolong ke?<br />
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2. Kahwin muda tu gatal.<br />
Ini lagi mengarut tapi that's the reality! Me myself jumpa dengan orang2 macam ni.. They think that if that couple kahwin awal, means diorang ni dah gatal sangat. Come on people..just now you said kahwin lambat tak laku..kahwin awal pon salah jugak? Why don't we just have a positive thinking of other people? I mean, baguslah dia nak kahwin awal..atleast boleh elak maksiat kan?And dah jodoh dia sampai dulu..just be happy for them boleh kan?<br />
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I think this is the worst part and shouldn't be implemented at all..It's not logic pon..Even saya sendiri selalu terkena dengan ayat ni bila ade someone (tak kisahla membe ke tak) sesukahati buat muka tak bersalah guna ayat ni padahal dia dah lambat. YOU are the one that late..then why you have to drag nama kaum sendiri..dah la memalukan pulak tu..haiyooo..lainlah baru je lepas dapat balak macam Edward Cullen ke and cakap "oh I melayu and I dapat Edward ok!you ade?" (ok xde kaitan)<br />
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The point of this entry is that, I'm trying to tell you guys that how many people that I've met takut nak teruskan next step diorang sebab terlalu fikirkan orang lain. Apa makcik dia akan kata? Apa jiran sebelah yang setahun 2 kali je jumpa akan kata? Too much thought from other people yang actually tak penting pon! But because of this mentality, they still stop! Kita ada adat, dan adat kita sangatlah indah..Melayu itu sendiri kaum yang tinggi sopan santunnya..tapi we don't have the short mentality just because of another penyakit dalam diri kita which is, penyakit "tak boleh tengok orang lain lagi senang dari kita".. Betul tak??<br />
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If you think that you are in the right path, then just go for it.. I remind you again, will those makcik2 or kawan2 yang mengata you guys tu akan tolong korang bila korang susah nanti?? tak kannnn??? It's all up to you..as long as you in the right way..you know what I mean right?<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09933721883179117938noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489920081218237631.post-26678695770926995602013-01-10T15:01:00.001+08:002013-01-10T15:01:15.624+08:0050 Cara Untuk Memikat Lelaki<br />
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<span style="color: #ead1dc; font-size: large;">Bro janggut Cuba listkan beberapa tips untuk memikat seorang lelaki..</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">1.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Sentiasa tersenyum dan jangan bersikap sombong apabila berinteraksi dengan mereka.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red;"><span style="font-size: x-large;">2.</span> </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Pandai memasak adalah ciri2 utama mengapa lelaki mudah terpikat dengan anda.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">3.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Berpewatakan menarik mampu menarik minat mereka.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">4.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Jujur dan sentiasa merendah diri.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red;"><span style="font-size: x-large;">5.</span> </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Lakukan apa yang dia suka dan jangan lakukan apa yang dia tidak suka.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">6.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Mempunyai bentuk badan yang menarik ( Bergantung pada persepsi seorg lelaki itu).</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">7. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Mempunyai tingkah laku yang baik da lemah lembut.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">8.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Pandai dalam memainkan peranan anda sebagai seorang wanita ketika berada di samping lelaki anda minati.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">9.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Jangan terlalu mengongkong.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">10. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Ketika berinteraksi dengan mereka jangan lupa gunakan bahasa tubuh yang anda ketahui seperti mata dan tangan.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">11. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Jaga cara pemakaian anda, seksi atau tidak terpulang kepada lelaki yang anda minati.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">12.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Sering memberikan kad ucapan serta hadiah buat si dia.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">13.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Lelaki suka wanita yang berterus terang.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">14. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Apabila berhadapan dengan lelaki, renung matanya dan cuba buat humor.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">15.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Jangan bersikap selalu jual mahal.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">16. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Bijak menyesuaikan diri.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">17. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Tidak mudah putus asa dan sentiasa berdiri atas kaki sendiri.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">18.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Jangan suka bercakap benda yang tidak berfaedah ketika bercakap dengan mereka.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">19.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Jangan membandingkan lelaki kamu dengan bekas2 teman lelaki kamu dahulu.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">20. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Menjadi temannya ketika susah dan senang.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">21. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Lelaki suka kamu menjadi pendengar yang setia dan tidak suka wanita yang suka membangkang.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">22. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Yang paling penting lelaki suka dimanjai dengan belaian dan kata2 yang menarik.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">23.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Bunyi derapan kasut ketika berjalan juga mampu menarik perhatian lelaki.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: large;">24. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Lelaki tidak suka jika kamu memakai mekap yang terlalu tebal.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">25. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Mengetahui bila hari lahirnya.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">26.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Menghormati dirinya,keluarga da teman2 yang rapat dengan nya.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">27.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Bersikap matang dalam tutur kata dan tingkah laku. Lelaki tidak suka wanita yang terlalu kebudak-budakkan.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">28. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Agresif.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">29. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Jangan terlalu excited ketika bertemu dan berbuak dgn nya.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">30. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Jangan terlalu bersikap kelakian.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">31. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Jangan terlalu menunjukkan bahawa kamu ini terlalu perfect.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">32.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Jangan perasan bahawa kamu mmpunyai paras rupa yang jelita.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">33.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Sentiasa memegang prinsip sederhana dan tidak boros di dalam perbelanjaan.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">34.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Bersikap keibuanadalah tips yang perlu kamu titik beratkan.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">35. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Sentiasa bercakap lembut dengan mereka.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">36. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Ketahuilah mereka ini adalah golonganyang terlalu sensitif dan suka akan kelembutan apatah lagi dari seorg gadis.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">37.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Kenali Siapa dirinya sebenarnya sebelum kamu memulakan langkah untuk memikat.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">38.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Lelaki sukakan wanita yang menjaga kulit. Jangan biarkan wajah kamu di penuhi jerawat batu.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">39.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Aset penting bagi kamu untuk memikat lelaki adalah mata, punggung, dan gaya langkah kamu yang kemas.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">40. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Jangan bersikap terlalu kuno.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">41. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Bertanya khabar sekurang2 nya 2 kali seminggu agar tali persahabatan kamu denganya tidak putus begitu sahaja. Mungkin suatu hari nnt sikap kamu mampu menrik perhatiannya.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">42.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Usia dan bentuk badan bukan jadi ukuran yang penting tetapi kecerdikan, kejujuran dan tingkah laku yang bersopan santun.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">43. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Lelaki suka kan seorg wanita yang beriman dan beragama namum begitu kamu tidaklah perlu terlalu alim.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">44. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Menunjukkan bahawa kamu bukan lah seorg gadis yang mudah di permainkan.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">45. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Jangan terlalu merengek dan mengada2.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">46. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Jangan tunjukkan kelemahan kamu ketika berada disamping lelaki kamu.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">47. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Lelaki sukakan wanita yang bijaksana dan matang serta mudah di ajak berbincang.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">48.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Berjaya di dalam apa jua bidang yang kamu ceburi.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">49.</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"> Tidak terlalu meminta dan jaga tatatertib kamu dimeja makan.</span><br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">50. </span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Jangan terlalu over.. lelaki akan meluat!! heeee</span><br />
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<span style="color: #ead1dc;">Actually.. apa yg tertulis nie.. boleh di gunakan bagi kedua2 gender ( perlu di rujuk pada Puan sawang-rujukan kaum hawa ).</span><br />
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<span style="color: #ead1dc;">So forwardkan pada boipren and girlpren korang kay.. adios...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-size: large;">Bro Janggut</span><br />
<br />Sambal Udang Petaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06457364370151867719noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489920081218237631.post-18642661704368097172013-01-09T21:00:00.006+08:002013-01-10T13:05:07.802+08:00Man from Mars, Women from Venus??Really??<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hi gorgeous!!<br />
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You guys pernah baca buku "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"??<br />
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Do you know that it's actually a good book?? Do you know it can actually help in your relationship??<br />
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Its a very simple book..really..with simple words..very easy to understand the point that the writer try to deliver to us...<br />
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But why the title is like that?? Tak ada title lain yang lagi panjang ke? (sarcasm) The title is like that to make the book look cool you know..Haha..No lah~ it's actually to really show you that MEN and WOMEN are totally different..different characters..way of thinking..blabla..etc2..but somehow when the love is there..they can live together..in so called "happy ending" world..but things change when they started to forget that they are different..so Men assume Women can have the same way of thinking like man always do and Women assume Men can have the same feeling like women always have..Got it???<br />
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But by using this differences in a good and healthy way, you can actually create more wonderful world with your own partner..that's the whole idea of this book..which the writer close up in each of the problem occurs in every couple..first few chapter he make us really understand the different between Men and Women..like...<br />
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Men!!!:<br />
- they don't really get into feelings..they prefer to do something else instead of to think about the problem deeply.<br />
- they always find the answer..try to solve problem by themselves..<br />
- they like to help others..but if they have problems, they prefer to keep it by themselves.<br />
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Women!!!:<br />
- they are always emotional..like to think of their problem more deeply as for them, the more they think, the more they will find solution for the problem..<br />
- they always need guide..that's why they always talk..because for them, they feel more relieve when they talk about the problem even though they still don't find any solution..easy way to say..they need someone that can hear them..<br />
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They are plenty more!! Which is definitely the differences make Men and Women not the same creature at all!! But somehow when we look at it deeply, it actually been made so that Men and Women can complete each other.. For example, Women need someone to hear about their problems and Man often offer that hearing services and also offer solutions..beautiful isn't??<br />
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But the problem comes in a relationship when Men and Women start to forget all this!!<br />
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Again for example:<br />
"Nina terpaksa menghadapi orang2 yang bermasalah yang tak berapa nak reti bahasa di tempat kerja beliau bila orang2 ni suka benar menyibuk hal ehwal orang lain..Pada Nina, perkara ini amatlah mendatangkan stress kepadanya disebabkan orang2 ini juga suka menceritakan perilaku Nina walaupon Nina tak kenal pon sesetengah daripada orang2 tersebut (nampak tak stress tu?)..Maka Nina pon pulang ke rumah..menceritakan hal ini dengan suaminya, Syah. Niat Nina hanyalah ingin berkongsi kerana bagi Nina, dia hanyalah mahu melepaskan tekanan di kepala..Sebaliknya bagi Syah, Nina sedang meminta pertolongan beliau untuk menyelesaikan masalah tersebut..maka apabila Syah cuba memberi komen..Nina start moody sebab Nina merasakan Syah terus memberi solution sebab tak mahu lagi mendengar bebelannya.." And so...there will be this common thing that we call as miscommunication!!<br />
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And so..this book will provide you the answer for it..which I cannot tell the whole of the book here la kan..Why Men act like this when they are stress? Why Women talks too much? How to act when your partner starts to run away from you? All this..you will get the answer from the book!!<br />
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Till then,<br />
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-Puan Sawang-<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09933721883179117938noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489920081218237631.post-86257629816057133472013-01-09T20:59:00.000+08:002013-01-09T21:12:11.281+08:00Adakah Aku Menyintai Hawa Part 2<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Salam,<br />
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Berjumpa lagi dalam Adakah aku menyintai Hawa bahagian 2...<br />
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Wahai lelaki... Ketahuilah bahawa anda juga merupakan seorang yang unik dan lemah, Sama seperti kaum Hawa tapi mereka sedar akan kelemahan mereka (most of them..heheheheh) but kiter.. ader sedikit ego untuk mencari dan memperbaiki kelemahan diri kiter.<br />
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Di sini gua nak story skit psl 2nd layer of love korang... Selepas 1st layer korang tu berjaya di kawal (sila rujuk part 1) Korang mula merasakan sedikit kurang selesa dgn pasangan anda. Just sedikit sahaja.. kerana korang mula kenal sedikit rahsia dari pasangan anda. Walau ader antara yg korang nafikan.. maksud gua yg rs awek diaorg yang terbaik.. But trust me.. deep inside walau sebesar kutu kucing pun sebenarnya ada. Beza antara lelaki.. adalah berapa cepat dia realized menda tu.. berapa besar perbezaan.. berapa hebat menda tu menguasai perasaan mereka.<br />
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2nd layer nie merangkumi.. 80-90% nafsu 10-20% is logik. Kat sini korang mula ader 10-20% untuk mendalami pasangan korang. Sabar... walau pun nilainya kecil.. tapi pengaruh logik yg kecik tu amat membantu Hawa untuk terus jatuh cinta kepada anda. Pada saat ini anda mula memandang Hawa sebagai kekasih. Cuba sedaya upaya untuk memahami mereka dan kasih sayang korang masih membuatkan hawa hanyut dlm keadaan yang lebih terjamin.<br />
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Sekarang anda tidak mempunyai tenaga sehebat 1st layer.. tetapi anda akan memulakan sedikit kematangan dalam mengenali Hawa.. Hawa pasti cukup happy.. Si Adam mula mengambil berat akan kehendak dirinya.<br />
Sekarang Adam akan mulai belajar untuk memikat Hawa separa matang, mula bertanyakan program harian Hawa.. Kesibukan di tempat kerja atau kelas.. berkongsi masalah2 kecil Hawa. Just nice...Hawa akan cukup2 happy walau pun mereka tidak berapa kagum.<br />
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Saat2 nie.. Korang akan mula menumpukan perasaan Hawa sedikit.. mula mendengar rintihan2 manja mereka.. Korang mula suke mendengar rengekan manja mereka bila mereka bermasalah. Korang still rasa bahagia.. and Hawa akan rasa lebih bahagia. See.. kebahgiaan korang almost di tempat yang sama.. tapi Hawa mula menumpukan perhatian terhadap kamu.. walau pun tak 100%.<br />
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Adam oh Adam.. dalam layer nie.. korang kena mula bersabar.. nie part yang penting gua cakapkan td.. Korang kena mula mengajar diri korang bersabar.. and korang kena terus increasekan tahap kesabaran korang tu bila layer2 kamu meningkat... sama cam korang main game la kan.( bg gamers) Bila makin tinggi level game korang tu.. cabaran game korang akan jd makin susah.. so kena la sabar.. tau bile nk jd aggressive.. bila nak berlembut dgn Hawa.<br />
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Sabar tu separuh dari Iman bro..<br />
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See you all again..<br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: large;"><b>Bro Janggut</b></span><br />
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<br />Sambal Udang Petaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06457364370151867719noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489920081218237631.post-77189941609548772672013-01-05T16:44:00.002+08:002013-01-05T16:44:47.884+08:00Lelaki and don't<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="color: magenta; font-size: x-large;"><b>Antara perkara yang don't bg seorg lelaki..</b></span><br />
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1) <b><span style="color: red;">Jangan</span></b> meminta sesuatu benda di luar kemampuan kewangan kekasih,Tunang atau suami korang.<br />
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2) <span style="color: red;"><b>Jangan</b></span> la terlalu cemburu.. Cemburu keterlaluan akan membuat kaum adam rasa terkongkong.. Korang x bleh nak tambat kaum adam macam korang tambat kuda, kambing atau ayam.. pls hormat mututal respect.<br />
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3) <span style="color: red;"><b>Jangan</b></span> menyelongkar beg duit, diari, email atau email kaum adam. Bagi kepercayaan anda pada mereka.. KLu x boleh.. tglkan.. and cari somebody yang korang boleh percaya.. Klu x sanggup then pasrah la.. Tapi anda xder hak untuk berlaku begitu pada teman anda..<br />
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4) <b><span style="color: red;">Jangan</span></b> senang terpengaruh dengan omongan masyarakat..even BBF korang. Macam mn korang boleh percayaka diaorg sumer compare to org yg anda sayangi. Pergi selidik sendiri kalau korang mahukan kepastian. Berbincang ngan kaum adam.<br />
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5) <b><span style="color: red;">Jangan</span></b> sesekali mendedahkan keburukan pasangan anda... Bayangkan klu pakwe or pasangan anda memberitahu yang anda mempunyai 3 keping kurap di perut anda pada kawan2nya.. happy?<br />
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6) <b><span style="color: red;">Jangan</span></b> terlalu terlibat dengan kehidupan sosial anda.. libat kan pasangan anda..<br />
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7) <b><span style="color: red;">Jangan</span></b> meninggi2 diri anda dihadapan sesiapa pun lebih2 lagi anda bersama teman adam anda. Kaum adam senang rasa muak dgn hawa2 yang berlagak poyo nie..<br />
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8) <b><span style="color: red;">Jangan</span></b> menceritakan kisah silam ada pada pasangan anda.. simpan jer... Kaum adam nie kalau jeles susah.. imaginasi mereka terlalu tinggi.<br />
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9) <b><span style="color: red;">Jangan</span></b> mengorek kisam silam kaum2 adam nie.. melainkan dia yg bersedia utk bercerita.<br />
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10) <b><span style="color: red;">Jangan</span></b> sesekali cuba nk jadi pisau cukur.. sama ada sengaja atau x.. sebab mentaliti lelaki nie alert dgn menda2 nie sumer...<br />
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Kesimpulannya, Banyak2 kan berbincang dengan pasangan anda in proper manner.. belaja cara nak bercakap.. hormati antara satu sama lain... Jangan la mudah sangat melatah.. Adam tau kamu menyayanginya.. tp kamu kena tau.. sekeras mana pun adam.. dalam hati nya ader sorang baby yg menagih belaian kamu.. kamu kena blaja macam mn nak menyentuk baby tu.<br />
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Harap maklum,<br />
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<span style="color: red; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>Bro Janggut.</b></span><br />
<br />Sambal Udang Petaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06457364370151867719noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489920081218237631.post-5538588264921816722013-01-04T02:08:00.000+08:002013-01-04T02:08:19.341+08:00Penambahan Sawang<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Assalammualaikum..<br />
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just kidding :P<br />
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Hello semua rakyat jelata yang tak berapa nak jelita sekalian.. Selamat menyambut tahun baru..<br />
Pemberitahuan yang tak berapa nak penting sebenarnya.. but I will be one of the writer for this blog as well.. or should I say more as a place where we can conteng2 merapu2 sesuka hati.. Everyone has a right to say whatever they want to say right?<br />
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Anyway, this might be one of the other blog that you guys will visit. Appreciate your kind respond on how's the blog so far.. and if you don't mind, you can give some suggestions as well to us.. Feel free to do so ya :)<br />
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Happy New Year korangg~ it doesn't bring any different dekat mana korang celebrate..it's just a matter of getting into another day but with different number at the end of the date.. Dan penghijarahan ke tahun baru juga bukanlah alasan untuk kita baru nak pasang azam atau cita2 yang baru.. We should always encourage ourselves to set a new goal everyday in your life.. You know why?? Why?? Sebab orang2 yang suka set goal ni is one of ciri2 orang yang berjaya.. Tak caya ke?? Sila tengok gambar di bawah ye..<br />
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So apa lagi? Berebut ke kedai buku sekarang untuk beli journal/diary 2013 sekarang! Haha.. It's more up to you la kan on how you put it.. Maybe enough by just remember it inside your precious brain kan? (Myyy precioussss --> tiba2 feeling Lord of the Ring)<br />
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Till then,<br />
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Adios<br />
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-Puan Sawang-<br />
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<span style="color: magenta; font-size: x-large;"><b>Adakah aku menyintai Hawa...? (Part 1)</b></span><br />
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Setiap lelaki terlalu senang untuk menyintai seorang wanita (by default). Maybe ader golongan lelaki yang bukan begitu (special case). Topik saya hari mengenai normal lelaki. As muslim, kita percaya bahawa semua lelaki mempunyai nafsu di mata. Memang mudah for most of the guy jatuh cinta atau lebih tepat tertarik kepada kaum hawa yang diminatinya.<br />
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Adakah itu cinta..? Bagi saya, itu saya kategorikan 1st layer of love. It is a love.. Sorry kalau kaum Hawa tidak bersetuju.. tapi tolong baca isyaAllah saudari akan faham kalau x jugak, boleh post soalan.. IsyaAllah saya akan cuba jawab. Untuk diri saya sendiri, saya bahagikan cinta seorang lelaki kepada beberapa layer. Tak kire sesapa, dari mana2 golongan/lapisan masyarakat. Saya akan cuba kupaskan satu persatu.. Bagi saya sumer gender perlu faham konsep ini supaya senang untuk mancapai kebahgiaan berpasangan.<br />
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Cuba kiter semua fikir, Dari zaman dahulu.. zaman tok nenek kiter. Adam akan salahkan Hawa.. Hawa salahkan Adam.. pernah x kiter terfikir.. dua2 yg salah. SBB APA? atas sebab yg sama la saya cuba mencari jawapan ini. Ini bukan tesis penyelesaian masalah dari saya, tapi pendekatan untuk saya sendiri berkongsi ilmu dan berbincang dgn saudara/saudari di luar sana. Sila betulan saya kalau ader yang tidak bersetuju.<br />
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Berbalik kepada topik kiter, Saya mulakan 1st layer of love dari seorang lelaki. Ok, Semua lelaki datang dgn pakej nie. Dari mata turun ke hati (pernah dengar ?).. 1st layer nie..99% is nafsu. opss!! jgn melatah kay. Yes it is cinta nafsu.. but its not that bad kay hawa2 sekalian. You need to know this. Yes cinta nafsu, but doesnt mean lelaki tu terus nak terkam wanita tu. On this layer.. lelaki akan cuba sedaya upaya untuk meyakinkan wanita tersebut akan perasaannya. Awas lelaki... Jangan terlalu mendesak, Buruk padahnya.<br />
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Kaum adam perlu berlaku jujur dengan perasaan kamu. Think positive, saat nie enko memang ader kreativiti yang cukup tinggi. Daya saing enko sangat tinggi also effort enko memang pada tahap yang terbaik. Jangan salah gunakan nilai2 positif nie, control it.<br />
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Cuba bayang kan, put it like a game. Game empangan air and you all perlu salir kan air tu ke bebrapa kampung. Bila kamu kena love strike nie, Imagine your game start. Empangan kamu penuh kay.. Bayangkan.. apa akan jadi kalau kamu terus bukak water gate kamu maksimum..? the good news is kamu berjaya menyalirkan air tu kat sumer kampung2 tu. tapi apa guna kalau kamu banjirkan the whole area. Habis mati ayam dan itik orang. For sure, Org2 kampung tu duk sumpah seranah enko. Itu da gelojoh namanyer.. and trust me guys.. 99 % of just like this.. include me.<br />
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The best is.. enko amik kertas and list kan apa yg patut enko buat.<br />
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1) Kira berapa rumah yang terlibat.<br />
2) Berapa banyak keperluan air sehari yg di perlukan.<br />
3) Design mana yang korang rasa sesuai.<br />
4) faktor cuaca dan geografi at least korang prepare klu berlaku hujan lebat.<br />
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Banyak lagi yg korang leh list kan. Korang arkitek yang Allah ciptakan di muka bumi, Sbb tu korang di panggil khalifah. Dengan energy yg datang dari 1st layer of love tu, byk gile method yang korang leh buat untuk impress gadis yang korang suke. <span style="color: red;"><b>Sbb tu la Allah bagi energy tu, untuk korang impress gadis yang korang suke in positive way.</b></span><br />
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<span style="color: red;"><b>Allah da bg kat kiter sumer yg terbaik derrr... kiter jer yang melingkupkan nikmat dia</b></span>. Skang ko faham x..? Untuk kaum2 hawa yang terbaca menda nie.. X salah korang cuba pas menda nie kat laki korang and berbincang secara sihat.. insyaAllah, both side akan kata sepakat.<br />
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Nnt Klu ader masa dan kelapangan.. InsyaAllah saya akan sambung dgn 2nd layer of love seorang lelaki, InsyaAllah.<br />
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Salam sayang dr saya,<br />
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Bro Janggut<br />
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I'm proud to be Malaysian..<br />
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Food!!!!! But not the food itself...<br />
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Food.. I'm not talking about normal restaurant.. or hotel2.. I'm talking about stalls baby..yup2... Stall foods.... Yummy..<br />
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See... even you already had your dinner at home... but when you come to this place.. for sure you will eat again.. even for a bit.. Thats malaysian culture.. we sit.. and eat..and talk.. and eat again.. and talk.. and eat again.. hahahaha.. sometime we can have this routine almost everyday...<br />
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Its not only because of the food.. But the feel.. the smell of air.. the crowd.. the smile from somebody you didnt know.. The culture... Can you imagine.. some of Malaysian abroad.. crying to come back to Malaysia because all of this... One of their reasons is this.. This is Malaysia.. You will understand Malaysian from their food.. and their food culture...<br />
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Kadang aku rindukan tempat aku membesar... Padang Kubu, 24010, Kemaman.. Almost setiap tahun banjir (actually mmg setiap tahun pon).. banjir tu da jadi mcm pesta utk budak2 dan beberapa bapak budak.. Sumer jalan ditutup.. sampan anggota tak berapa RELA bersidaian.. Tube2 tayar lori dgn tayar jentolak... Time2 tu mana nk ada sunway lagoon.. so kiter org create la water theme park sendiri.. Lg sempoi.. pokok2 sawit yg real.. ular.. biawak.. pendek kater sumer la real.. termasuk beberapa nyawa kanak2 yg terkorban..</div>
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Cb kiter bayang kan yg umah kiter dlm keadaan mcm nie... ( klu yg duk tingkat 13 kat Damansara height tu x payah la nk byg kan).. tgh2 sedap tido kul 2-3 pagi.. peluk bini atau kucing kampung.. tetiba kena bangun.. d buruh kasar..angkat perabot2 and perkakas elektrik.. haish..BOLOK BOHHH... air da mula masuk umah... sangap dohhh!!!!<br />
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Pengalaman begini x semua org yg rs.. tp kdg2 bila di ingat kembali.. time bdk2 mmg terbaik.. tp time jd org dewasa..haish.. dugaan betul... Bg yg kehilangan insan yg tersayang.. Takziah utk mereka... Al Fatihah utk mangsa.. Semoga Allah permudahkan kehidupan mereka..Amin...</div>
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